What is a Sacred Intimate?  Sacred Intimacy is a path of the sacred lover - honoring the wisdom of the body and experiencing this sensual/erotic energy as a pathway to the Divine.   I feel we can use our bodies as a means to reach higher states while honoring our bodies as a sacred vessel for enlightenment.   I see our body as a sacred gift and what is more sacred than the gift of self-loving or loving another.


My clients are gay, bisexual and straight men.  I also work with women and couples.  To be in service to this work is very rewarding and I do it with loving integrity.  Your comfort and safety are important to me.  Some of the possibilities include:


Cornstarch Massage is a delight to the senses using cornstarch as a medium to communicate with the whole body.  The touch is light but slow and tantalizing.   

Erotic Massage is an exploration into your own sensations and pleasure.  Your session begins with an interview to determine the style of sensual or erotic massage you desire. Breath coaching and other training are available to enhance your experience. Taoist Erotic massage, one of the massage styles available, activates higher states of consciousness through breath, genital massage and the use of the Big Draw. I offer an incredible butt massage that is both deeply relaxing and pleasurable.  Prostate massage is also available for health and pleasure.

Many of my clients request a combination of therapeutic and erotic massage.  If this appeals to you please allow a minimum of 1-1/2 hrs. to have a full experience.   My partner, Paul Cook is available for a four-handed experience (two of us on one) or for couples wanting to receive a massage at the same time.

Sacred Sex Coaching is a facilitated exploration for both individuals and couples, used to enhance your self-pleasuring or the way you share with another. Sessions are set up in one of three environments to work with your personal comfort. 1) You can learn techniques and exercises to do at home. 2) You can learn the techniques in session, explore variations while I give feedback. In this setting I can be close or remain at a distance to in whatever way you can feel more comfortable. 3)As in erotic/sensual massage, I will be touching you at times to show techniques to try. In sex coaching we can explore:

-Breath coaching

-Sex Magic and meditation

-Self-pleasuring to achieve higher erotic states

-Activating energy centers through breath and self-pleasuring

Healing the wounded Heart Some of us carry wounds to the sacred erotic part of our spirit.  They are caused when we are denied the innocent pleasures of childhood or worse, our innocence is exploited.   These wounds perpetuate negative beliefs about our body, our genitals and rectum, leaving a feeling of  detachment and shame.  Yet this most sacred gift is how we connect with one another, this planet and to the Divine.  In this exploration I may use a combination of breath techniques, mirror work, hypnotherapy and bodywork to reintegrate the erotic body with the heart, mind and spirit.

Focus for your session can be used to:

-Transform guilt and restore a positive self-image

-Increase both self pleasuring and partner gratification

-Remove some physical and emotional blocks to sexual wellness

-Activate both physical and spiritual  awakenings.

-Direct sexual energy for self-healing

Conscious Breathwork can be used for healing, restoring emotional wellness, and reconnecting with your body.  Conscious breathwork is the foundation of Sacred Intimate work.  I teach three breath styles;

(1) charging breath - which stimulates  healing,

(2) releasing breath - for grounding and relaxing, and

(3) the Big Draw - for changing  levels of consciousness.


If you would like a sacred intimate session then call David at 808 634-3004 or email me at sacredlover@mac.com.


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    To know oneself as a body is more important, at this moment in history, than to read the words of all the wise men who have ever lived.

Marco Vassi